We all have moments that change our lives forever. These can range from tragic events to moments where you are so awestruck that you are speechless. 1997 Game 5 of the NBA finals is a moment that left me awestruck. It has become known as the Michael Jordan Flu Game. I’m a huge MJ fan!  I had heard stories of John Elway or Troy Aikman playing with concussions, winning games they don’t remember. This was the first time I had seen anything like those stories. I remember crying very hard starting at half time and continuing through the end of the game.  I was watching greatness become personified and immortalized.  I kept asking myself the following question:

“How can anyone train their entire being to be a winner, so that even if your are mentally out of it, everything kicks in to win?”

What kicks in after the choice is made?  On my flight home yesterday, I read the following poem in Dave Ramsey’s book “Financial Peace Revisited.” I could not have aptly answered the above question. For 12 years, I’ve endeavored to make the wisdom below work for me. The author is unknown, but I hope you get as much out of it as I did.

I am your constant companion
I am your greatest helper or your heaviest burden.
I will push you onward or drag you down to failure.
I am at your command.
Half of the tasks that you do you might just as well
turn over to me and I will do them quickly
and correctly.
I am easily managed,
You must merely be firm with me.
Show me exactly how you want something done;
After a few lessons I will do it automatically.
I am the servant of all great people and
alas of all failures as well.
Those who are great I have made great,
those who are failures I have made failures.
I am not a machine, but I work with all the precision
of a machine, plus the intelligence of a person.
Now you may run me for profit or
you may run me for ruin.
It makes no difference to me.
Take me, train me, be firm with me,
And I will lay the world at your feet.
Be easy with me and I will destroy you.
Who am I?  I am called Habit.

What habits do you need to develop in order to become successful?

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My hero of antiquity is Leonardo da Vinci.  He did not become defined by his upbringing, or day job. History defines da Vinci as a Renaissance Man. All that he accomplished can be found in this post.

In modern times, with the 40+ hour work week, it’s hard to imagine accomplishing as much as da Vinci. Yet, I know we can.  When I came to a point in my life, where I needed to find a different direction I did the following exercise.

  1. Wrote down everything I was interested in (past, present or future). This did NOT include my college major.
  2. What on the list could I make money with and how?
  3. What tools do I have now to achieve those goals?  Steps 2 and 3 may take some research in the local library.
  4. What was I willing to pursue?  Anything I wasn’t willing to put effort in, became a hobby.
  5. What skills or experience do I lack to prevent me from success in those goals?  Pursue jobs that will give you the skills and experience to pursue step 4.
  6. Prioritize and start pursuing!

I went through ideas like breeding German Shepherds (which I think is a good retirement idea), wine making, speaking and becoming an author.  I’m pursuing a lot of these ideas now. But I still have the research of when I did it nearly 10 years ago.  I’m going through those questions again, to see if I may have new interest I desire to pursue.

The decision to work for learning instead of money has paid off tremendously in my life. A person with a good work ethic, dreams/goals and insatiable desire to learn is an unstoppable force; she is a person who will not fall into the pit of mediocrity.

What direction do you want to take your life in?

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In Honor of Martin Luther King, Jr.

Encouragement

I could think of no greater way to honor this great man, than to take my favorite quotes from his “I Have Dream” speech and expound on what they mean to me.
My 5 favorite quotes from Martin Luther King’s “I Have a Dream” speech:
“We must forever conduct our struggle on the high plane of dignity [...]

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Happy New Year 2010

Encouragement

2009 was a great year for me.  I accomplished most of what I wanted to accomplish.  The things I didn’t accomplish were due to further research, I decided to change the goal.

This year I launched this blog in July.  I’ve been learning a lot about social media through the process. When I started I didn’t [...]

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Everyone Needs a Scarlett Moment

Leadership

A Life Lesson from “Gone with the Wind”
December 15th marks the 70th anniversary of the opening of “Gone with the Wind”. It is still the all time highest grossing revenue movie ($400 million – not bad when it only cost a 25 cents to see a movie, adjusted to today’s dollars that’s $1.45 billion!)
The movie [...]

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Familiarity or Intimacy?

Relationships

Leaders of the 21st century cannot allow themselves to fall for the great deception of familiarity for  intimacy.  Familiarity today is one-way.  Fans of LeBron James are familiar with him but do not know him.  He would not recognize them if he saw them out in public.
Intimacy is two-way. Someone in relationship with LeBron James [...]

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